Manifesting Love: 5 Steps to Attract Love

Updated: Aug 12

If you have stumbled upon this blog post, you are probably searching for love, your soulmate, your happily ever after! There is enough love in the world for everyone and even if it doesn't feel like it right now, your chance at true love is just around the corner.


But is there anything you can do to help attract love and speed up the process? Yes! You can certainly manifest love into your life with the Law of Attraction. Read below to learn 5 simple steps you can take to manifest a soulmate into your life.


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1. Focus on Self-Love and Self-Care First


It's time to fall in love with yourself! Once you love yourself deeply, you will become a magnet to the kind of people you want to attract. Put yourself first and set aside a certain amount of time in the day or week to take care of yourself and put your needs first.


This could be as simple as treating yourself to a lovely bubble bath at the end of the day, watching your favourite rom-com, taking yourself out for a coffee or cooking yourself a delicious meal. If you do one thing a day to bring yourself love, the universe will deliver love right back to you tenfold!


2. Love Affirmations


Affirmations are short and powerful positive statements that can help consciously control our thoughts. When we repeat these often, they become our reality. These can be repeated out loud, in our head or written down.


Think of between 5 and 10 affirmations you can affirm daily to attract love into your life. Here are a few examples of positive love affirmations you can use...


  • I am deserving of love

  • I am so grateful and thankful to have found my soulmate

  • My soulmate and I are perfect matches for each other

  • I love myself completely and I am ready for love

  • I attract positive and like-minded people into my life


3. Write your Cosmic Shopping List


Grab your journal, it's time to start your dream soulmate wish list! Visualise your soulmate for a minute. How do they make you feel? What do they do to make you feel happy and loved? What hobbies and interests do they have?


Now it's time to put pen to paper. Write a list of all of the qualities you would like your ideal partner to have and what your hopes and dreams as a couple would be together. Do you see yourselves settling down and starting a family in a couple of years or perhaps travelling the world and exploring new places together? Make sure to specific in your answers. You can write in list form or even as a letter if you prefer!


Example: My soulmate is a kind and caring soul who cares deeply about his family. This makes me feel very excited for when we have children of our own as I know he is going to be the perfect role-model for our children. My soulmate is very driven, career-orientated and ambitious. He has lots of dreams of his own and also supports all dreams of mine.


4. Manifest Love with Crystals


The top crystal for manifesting love is Rose Quartz. Rose Quartz is known as the stone of love and has a calm, healing and loving energy. Whether it's self-love you're seeking or you're on the lookout for love, Rose Quartz has got your back!


To attract love all day long, pop a piece of Rose Quartz in your pocket or in your purse and let it works its magic! Other top crystals for attracting your soulmate include Red Jasper, Jade and Green Aventurine.


Red Jasper is the stone of passion and helps to keep you strong and grounded. Jade is a very lucky love stone and brings peace, love and harmony. Green Aventurine is one of the best crystals for manifesting love as it activates the heart chakra allowing you to open your heart and accept all of the love you deserve.



5. Act "as if" you Have Found Your Soulmate Already


Acting "as if" is a very powerful manifestation tool. Simply put, acting "as if" is living as if you have what you want already. In the case of love, act as if you are already with your dream partner. Doing this raises your vibration and lets the universe know that you're ready to welcome someone new into your life right now.


Act, behave, feel, behave, and be the version of you that you want to be when you find true love. If you're waiting to cook your special dish for a special someone, cook it for yourself! Want to travel the world with your soulmate? Start saving! Wear that dress that makes you feel amazing, go stargazing and do all of the things you dream of one day doing with soulmate.



It is totally possible to manifest love. If you put these steps into practice, even just one of these steps today, you're one step closer to finding the soulmate love you desire. You deserve it!



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